Sighhhh... this month I feel like I am battling POST PMS!
I don't know what exactly is wrong with me...
Crying everyday for every little reason... sad, mad, hurt, lonely... a whirlwind of emotions.
My hubby and I don't spend enough time together which when I'm like this, I NEED him to comfort me but he insists my "bitchiness" pushes him away.
Didn't he just vow to love me "in sickness and in health..."?
I wish men could just understand an OUNCE of why women feel the way we do!
No card on Mothers Day from him, not could he pick one up for our boys to sign; he didn't have "time"!
That hurts...
he would be hurt if I pulled that on Fathers Day.
The weather has been gloomy and rainy, I'm super stressed about the issues going on with my financial aid for summer; may not be taking any classes now:(
Just in a FUNK:(
I hope you all can understand that my blog is titled "Lil Bits and Pieces of Me" because I "choose" to share various lil bits and pieces of MY life with YOU.
The good, the bad, the ugly.
Many of my blogging friends are more willing to lend a shoulder to cry on and advice that many of my FRIENDS and family that live by me, which is very sad.
I am missing my dad a lot too... going on 6 months since he's passed.
Its hard to lose a parent, esp. when you helped care for them and feel responsible for things.
Thats another thing my hubby can't relate to.
I can't hide my emotions; thats not who I am.
I show them in my expressions and in my words... is that such a bad thing?
I'm NOT the perfect wife or mother, or friend or daughter, or sister.
But I TRY really hard to be, I show love and comfort to those I love when I see they NEED it and thats all I really want in return.
Just needed to "vent" some tonite before going to bed...
since I can't vent to the people I need to. :(
Hmmmphhhh.... sorry to bum you out with this post.
True friends will understand and I love you so very much for that ♥
Noelle ~
16 comments:
Noelle~ bum bum bummer... so sorry you are feeling down and out. I know we all can have those days. I wish there was more I could do. I say get out and go on a walk.... clear your mind and thoughts. I say go for a car ride and hit MCD'S for a mocha frap. crank the radio. Sit down and have a heart to heart with the hubs. Sometimes when we are feeling bithcy or acting that way.. the men don't really want to be around us. Maybe just talking to him and visiting with him... expressing how you feel may help. I hope that your funk goes away after some good sleep tonight, and you wake up refreshed and ready to take on the day and world tomorrow. Chin up girlie... HUGS, Jenn
REMEMBER~ tomorrow is another day! ;)
Friends are like bras! Their close to the heart and there for support.
Talking is always good, men just don't have a sensitive button that we have!
A foolish man tells a woman to stop talking. But a smart man tells her that her mouth is extremely beautiful when her lips are closed.
Hang in there sweetie. Life is tough but you are well loved. Anne
Gee you and I sound similar!
I hope you get your groove again soon!
Noelle,it's ok to vent your feelings,it's a healthy thing to do. You are always going to miss your Dad and only you will ever know and understand how deep those feelings go. You will carry your Dad' and thoughts of him with you for the rest of your life. I am sorry,I know the pain of this that you carry,I lost my Dad 17 years ago. You also need to stop trying to be so perfect. You do so much for all in your family because you love them but striving to be perfect will just become overwhelming.
Have you ever asked your doctor for something to help you get through these times of funk? My sister had PMS so severe that she finally talked about it and it was actually depression and anxiety which she now takes something for and functions so much better. Sometimes it's not just what's going on in our lives ,sometimes it's chemicals and hromones in our bodies that make things more severe.
I also take something for anxiety and am a much happier and more funtional person. Things like my sister and I have are sometimes hereditary. In my case I think yes. I was always the older girl in the family and always strived to be perfect and make everyone proud constantly. I did this with my looks,my weight,my family,my job,my home,everything..... being so overwhelmed can just push you over the edge.Do the things that make YOU happy and know that everything can't be perfect. Don't ever be afraid to ask for help. These problems that women have are more common than you think.
Big hugs, Sue
He should have gotten you a Mother's Day card. That would have upset me also. Why don't you take sometime for yourself....take a walk, window shop maybe meet someone for lunch. We all get in a FUNK sometimes.
Im so sorry sweetie,but men to not have the same feelings we have. they do use the other side of the brain and we are the emmotional ones. Little things they could do to make us so happy and they have no clue.
Im sorry you miss your dad and I wish so bad I could make it better and say it will end,but I wanna talk to my mom so bad..I need her now.I don't understand life and the stress and pain,but all I know if I have to hold to Jesus.Go read my post today!
Love you
Oh honey...I'm so sorry you're in a funk. Glenn and your hubby are so alike it's not even funny. I didn't get a card either on Mother's Day...he says "I'm not his mom". OK...then why do I do all the things for him that his mother would do. whatever! He did get me a gift, so I know he remembered.
I get in ruts like you're in right now too. People tell you to get out...do something, but sometimes that just doesn't work. I think what would work is to go thrifting or garage saling...whoo hooo...wish I had the money to do that!
Sorry about the financial aid..I'm going through that with Mark and Cassie...I just don't know how the president says everyone should get the chance to go to college. Ya..Okay...and with what???
Big hugz girlfriend...we're here whenever you need to vent!
Michele
I swear we marry our husbands just so that they can make us feel miserable! lol Guys sure don't understand how we women feel, it's too easy for them to just blame it on PMS or just being bitchy. You really need to make him listen to you and tell him how you're feeling because if it continues like that, you will eventually drift apart. That's what happened with my marriage...I was always left alone with the kids and he never had time for me or them.
You also have a lot going on in your life right now so it's no wonder you feel so overwhelmed and bummed out. You need to let go of some things so that you're not so stressed out all the time. I know easier said than done but you just can't continue like this. Sending you big hugs!! xoxo
Sending ((hugs)) your way. I so know what you mean! Men just don't understand. Sometimes I tell my hubby, "You can't understand because you're not a GIRL!" Then I stick my tongue out at him. I'm not advocating this kind of behavior--that's just how I handle it!
Hope your week gets better!
Love ya......
Hey sweetness I am sorry you've been down in the dumps. Plus that totally sucks about Mother's Day. It would never happen on Father's Day because you wouldn't let that happen. Sheesh, MEN! You know what would cheer you up? Maybe a new blog header...got anything in mind to match your new brighter background? I'll have to look through my digi kits to see what I can find☺
Giving you a big hug from South Dakota- the sunshine state! Better days are ahead! Hang on! ♥
Hey Sweets~ I am glad to hear you have gotten out of your funk. Plus Dove sounds like its really paying off.. that has to make you really happy.
I just wanted to come by and say.. you crack me up, you don't have to go back like 6 posts and read all of my posts and comment. However, I am flattered that you did. It means alot that you read each one, and left me comments.. you must really love me? HE HE SQUEAL!
I totally agree with you on my bloggy/follower post.. I think it is down right RUDE when you find a blog you like and comment more then once and follow their blog and they pay you nothing in return. I agree w/ Julie Harward... The Harwards too, if they don't comment back after you have done it so many times.. then I just stop following them and move on. I just stopped following Ashley's Avenue... because I left her like 4 different comments on posts even saying, "Come say Hi" and she never EVER did. I think its totally bad bloggin etiquette. I agree with you on the clique feeling too, it totally feels that way. I have EMAILED U Create more then once and asked if she would mind featureing one of my crafts? and she never responded, yet she post's up everyone elses good ideas, that hurts and is frustrating too. Anyhoo, the QUALITY, not quantity like you mentioned is WAY BETTER. YOU SAID IT ALL PERFECLTY. hugs, LOVES, Jenn
funktastic...it happens. don't you just love having a place to vent and get a few "poor huns"? all women can relate! go shag the hubz, it will totally make you feel better...release those endorphins!
Hi Noelle -
I'm sorry I haven't been by to visit in a while, and now I see that you need all of us. I have felt this way so many times and I'm sorry that you're going through it. :( Just know that you are a wonderful person - a caring person, and you deserve to have all good things come your way. We all love you here in blogland! :) Keep your chin up. :)
Hey Noelle,
I am so sorry that you've felt in a funk. We all have days like this.... Something I always tell myself, when I'm feeling in a "funk" is that "This too shall pass" and sure enough it does.
God is always with us... on this life journey, we are never alone. Hope that you are feeling 100% better this week :)
Big Hugs, plus another one for good measure,
Queenie
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